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The Unexpected Phone Call

We made it to Paris and had a great first day taking in the sights.  As we were heading out for a romantic stroll along the Seine followed by  a fashionably late dinner, the phone rang.   Never a good omen.

Diane’s sister Scherlyn said it was urgent that we contact Diane’s great Aunt Loretta regarding  our son Kyle.  Evidently, Kyle – age 19 – was in a jail cell in Florida facing drug charges.  This got our attention! Especially since Kyle  had been at work in New Jersey when we left.  When we finally reached Loretta – who had no idea we were in Paris – she told us she had  had several calls with Kyle and the attorney who was representing him. Evidently, Kyle had made a spur of the moment decision to fly to Florida after we left to attend the funeral of a friend  who had been killed in a car accident.  On the way to the funeral from the airport, the driver of the Uber car was stopped for a minor traffic violation.  The driver had a suspended license  and a criminal record which triggered a police search of the car .  The police found a large amount of cocaine.  Kyle was now in jail. The attorney was asking Loretta to wire $4,000 immediately to help him make bail and pay the attorney.  Otherwise, Kyle might be forced to spend the next six weeks in jail before a hearing could be scheduled. Loretta said Kyle begged her not to call us. He said he would pay her back when he returned to New Jersey and sorted all this out.

So now we were really worried.  This did not seem possible. And to be honest, we had one of those parental WTF moments and a collective ” Really!  This can’t be happening. Come on universe. We finally take a bucket list trip, fly to Europe and don’t even get one dinner under our belt before facing crisis that could end the trip or at the least distract us for days until Kyle was safe.”

Many phone calls followed and as some of you are starting to suspect, Loretta was being scammed by some very unscrupulous people who prey on older people.  She had been prepared to do anything she could to help Kyle and for that were grateful.  And thankfully, Kyle was safe at work at his summer job at Juniper Hill, where he is  helping award-winning chef Josh De Chellis prepare some really excellent food.  So if you want see Kyle, have dinner at Juniper Hill this weekend.

Gee, we can’t wait to see what day 2 brings.

France 2017

Were excited to begin our Big Trip: two weeks in France – without kids – just the two of us off on a  grown up adventure.  We leave today, July 20th. Happy Birthday, Mom!

Diane spent a year as an exchange student in Belgium, but I have never been to Europe – so this is a real bucket list trip.  So exciting to visit places I have read so much about over the years.  Diane is excited too – and looking forward to French wines and chocolate croissants – yum!

We will post reflections and pictures from our trip as it unfolds, so feel free to follow us on this blog. This is our first time blogging, so bear with us as we learn how to use all these tools.  A shout out to my brother-in-law Mark Grewell, who gave me a few pointers.



All Advenures Begin with Planning

Diane and I want to give a special shout out to Rosalia Cellini at AAA and the folks at Trafalger Tours.  They made planning for this trip really easy. We also want to thank our friend Stasia, for her encouragement and advice and all the wonderful books she shared with us. And a special hello to our tour director Giovanna ( J0)  at Twitter: @Trafalagartalk; FB:; Twitter” @giotrafalgar.